Relationships are not healthy anymore

 

Once upon a time, there lived a king and queen. With a magical bliss a daughter was born. Laughter and joy was all around, the kingdom rejoiced and there was happiness all around.  Life was virtuous and they lived happily ever after. Sounds true? Well, not so anymore. Our relationships have got much more complicated then wishing to live like a king or a queen. For to be simply put our relations are not so healthy anymore.  One of the basic reasons of this would be unfaithfulness or dishonesty among us and just believing that a little fun won’t hurt.  Sometimes people would just cheat for the sake of pleasure or sometimes they are just not brave enough to tell the other person what their relationship lacks and when the cheating happens fairly near of in the future guilt stays. It stays like an unwanted guest in our home. You want to move him out but you can’t for the courtesy sake.  It does stays in your thoughts, even if you try to move out yourself. It’s actually easy to make or start relation but work it out is a demanding task. . Buying comes about one time; maintenance is set all through life.  Just like a new shiny toy for a kid. He gets all happy at first, use it for some time and when he sees another toy there is an absolute attraction for it. He is still is loyal to his old one, plays it for some time but the new one as his favourite and one day he replaces it all but with scars and marks of being used are left for his life. As so far relationships are concerned, everything is too many whiles treated the same.

Everyone should understand life is for having fun, living it at fullest and delight but also for making a difference. You can have fun in life but making fun of someone else life isn’t an icing on your cake.  Mind’s your own business and be brave to whatever you shall face. Rather than cheating work out your problems or just move on. Or in case you don’t like to consider these options just move around, have a place change, give yourself the time to find what you actually seek. Much time I think Relations are like pure gems in jewellery. Taking away can leave empty places to fill which could be fulfilled again but of it would require gems of same size and shape and trust me not everyone is lucky.

Life happens once and so does loyalty in a relation so why not treasure it while you still can. It’s too short to be mad at each other and move away. The beauty and reverence of relation are when they are together and not apart but only if you want to sustain it from eyes to heart and not as a deal of business with counting profits and losses every day.

Have a good day!

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